final | THE 1045 - CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE, Quizzes of World Religions

Download final | THE 1045 - CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE and more Quizzes World Religions in PDF only on Docsity! TERM 1 empathy DEFINITION 1 Empathy enables me to understand another person from that person frame of reference put in the other persons shoes. Empathy begins with a n attitude of openness to set aside my own concerns and turn to you. This basic openness s not sufficient my compassion for empathy can be enhaced by a range of behavioral skills in my empathy I need behavioral skills. Accepting posture. Attentive listening. And senstivie paraphrasing. These contribute to TERM 2 self disclosure DEFINITION 2 Self disclosure becomes an intimate skills. To share myself with you I have to overcome hesitancy suggested by fear doubt or shame. I have to let you know totally. Self disclosure to share myself with you. Must be able to overcome the hesitancy suggested by fear, doubt or shame. It is nto easy to open to seomeone dont want to think bad about us or think something odd with us. Or not like us bec. I am afraid to show who I am. Maybe if I do dont like who I am. This part of personality I am ashamed of. I TERM 3 confrontation DEFINITION 3 Confrontation critical contribution in marriage. The ability to confront involves the psycholigal strength to give and receive emotionally significant information that lead to exploration rather than self defense TERM 4 4 styles of miscommunication DEFINITION 4 PlacatingThe placater is a "yes" man or woman: ingratiating, eager to please, and apologetic. Placaters say things like "Whatever you want" or "Never mind about me, it's BlamingThe blamer is a fault-finder who criticizes relentlessly and speaks in generalizations: they say "You never do ComputingThe computer is super-reasonable, stays calm and collected, never admits mistakes, and expects people to conform and perform. The computer says things like "Upset? I'm not upset. Why do you say I'm upset?" Afraid DistractingThe distracter resorts to irrelevancies under stress, avoiding direct eye contact and direct answers. Quick to TERM 5 7 indicators of a happy marriage DEFINITION 5 7 indicators of a happy marriage are a healthy expectation of marriage. Realistic concept of love. A positive attitude and outlook toward life. The ability to communicate their feelings. An understanding and acceptance of their gender differences. The ability to make decisions and settle arguments. A common spiritual foundation and goal TERM 6 4 mythso f marriage DEFINITION 6 The 4 myths of marriage. We expect exactly the same things in marriage Everything good will happen in relationship everything bad will disappear and my spouse will ake TERM 7 a frame relationship DEFINITION 7 A frame relationships are dependent relationships they have strong couple identity very little individual self esteem they think of themselves as a unit not separate individuals. Like long lines in the letter a they lean on one another. The relationship is so structured that if one let goes the other falls. And this happens when one partner outgrows his or her dependency needs. TERM 8 sex as demonic DEFINITION 8 Sex as demonic- he attributes this back to the Victorian age but it dates back to the manicheans good vs evil matter spriti light and darkness they divided all power and reality into two kingdoms kingdom of god versus satan. TERM 9 sex as divine DEFINITION 9 Then the flip side is sex as divine, this elevates from the demonic to the divine it is in a setting that is romantic. In the book William may uses the example of lady chareltons lover by dh Lawrence. What is it it about is when lady charleton married husband lord charleton he gone to war he got injured in the war. From the waste down and he had no feeling TERM 10 sex as casual DEFINITION 10 Sex as casual reduces our bodies to the playground pure and simple. Sex is reduced to no strings attached. Graphication with no involvement TERM 21 agape love DEFINITION 21 Agape (Ancient Greek: , agp) is " love: the highest form of love, charity; the love of God for man and of man for God." Not to be confused with "philo" - brotherly love - agp embraces a universal, unconditional love that transcends that.Serves regardless of circumstances. TERM 22 phileo DEFINITION 22 There is God's love (Greek: agape, meaning, to love in a social or moral sense), which is unconditional love; and then there is, (Greek: phileo, meaning, to be a friend to, have affection) which is a fondness type of love.Finally, we have phileo love. Philia refers to brotherly love and is most often exhibited in a close friendship Since phileo love involves feelings of warmth and affection toward another person, we do not have phileo love toward our enemies TERM 23 god is author of marriage DEFINITION 23 one Godassert that marriage is Gods idea. It originated with him. "God himself is the author of marriage" (Gaudium et Spes 48). It is for him, then, to teach us what it is. And he begins our lesson from the onset of creation. "The vocation to marriage is written in the very nature of man and woman as they came from the hand of the Creator" (Catechism of the Catholic Church 1603). Man and woman are literally made for each other. "Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh" (Gen. 2:24). This was the beginning of marriage TERM 24 h frame DEFINITION 24 H frame independent structured like capital h partners stand virtually alone. Each self sufficient and neither influenced much by the other. There is no or little couple identity. There is little emotional connecitveness. When one lets go the other one hardly feels it. H frame interdependent relationships partners stand vritually alone each self sufficient and neither influenced much by the other there is little or no couple identity and little emotional connection if one lets go the other hardly feels a thing. M TERM 25 m frame DEFINITION 25 frame interdependent relationship. Each partner has high self esteem. Is committed to helping the other partner grow. They could stand on their own but they choose ot be together it involves mutual influence and emotional support. M frame relationships exhibit a meaningful couple identity. The other feels the loss but recovers balance if one lets go. M frame interdendent each partner has high self esteem and is committed to helping the other partner grow they could stand on their own but choose to be together. It involves mutual influence and support. M frame exhibit a meaningful couple identity. If one lets the other feels a loss but recovers balance. Any questions. Going once twice out of here