High School Files - Senior High School, Essays (high school) of Performing arts

Download High School Files - Senior High School and more Essays (high school) Performing arts in PDF only on Docsity! Situation Your reaction Consequences (GM1) Someone criticized | | would be concerned | Confronting the person about it privately and peacefully your Facebook status by placing a negative comment. and nervous. | would try to confront this person and ask the reason why — and hopefully learn from it is the best and the most necessary thing you could do in this type of situation. This hones your learning, perception, and weighing of opinions, and increases your sensitivity and awareness about what you post online and to minimize more conflict to others as well, simply fostering netiquette. Someone played a prank on you in class and all your classmates were laughing | would be happy and joyful. | would try to join in but if it gets worse | would get mad A reaction like this is usual specifically when the action was done by friends, or people you are comfortable with. It also depends on what tricks were they trying to pull which can include events that might be unfavorable to you. Everyone might also get used to make jokes about you that they would get to the point of forgetting about what you would actually feel, which can lead to your distraught. One of your closest friends divulged your secret to another person. | would get mad and would lose my trust in this person There would be a higher chance that you will cut ties with this person. With that, you cannot avoid questions froma lot of people that would recognize that you are suddenly becoming distant with each other. However, this could also help him/her learn to analyze what he/she has committed wrong and to be more careful of what others would feel, because it might make the victim develop social and mental traumas. This might not always be the result, nevertheless, a suggestion to cut someone who does not consider to respect your privacy, or feelings, perhaps, is a type of self care that promotes the betterment of your mental health. It would still be up to you whether you will forgive him/her or not, though in this kind of situation, it is indeed hard to do so. You told your friend about an __ honest opinion about her that was hurtful and she cried. | would feel sad and nervous. | would try to console this person and try to point out some good _ points about her too To point out some good points about her is somehow indirectly (or probably not) your defense mechanism working, and it’s not wholly a bad thing. Aside that you are saying positive comments so that you can protect yourself from guilt and anxiousness, you are basically putting these things up because you also value your relationship with the person and you cannot afford to change drastically his/her perception of you that might affect the strength of your friendship. Therefore, to console someone with this kind of situation in anyway that does not worsen the situation is a must. Also, regarding to the reaction of the friend, a lot of people are very sensitive to comments that it may take time for them to process and to get back to their usual self depending on how extreme your words are to them. You