self - concept of self awareness, and self evaluation, Slides of Communication and Presentation Skills

Download self - concept of self awareness, and self evaluation and more Slides Communication and Presentation Skills in PDF only on Docsity! SELF: CONCEPT, FORMATION AND DIMENSION AND COMPONENTS SKILL DEVELOPMENT-II M.A HRM (IV SEMESTER) Who are you? What makes you “you?” CONT… The most important part of a mans personality is the Self Image. Self image is awareness of how one consciously perceives oneself. Self concept is that part of self about which one is aware. It includes the perception one has of ones own characteristics, feelings, attitudes, values and abilities. It is a picture the person has of himself. The self concept may change or develop over a period of time. This happens because of environmental influences and life experiences. CONT… A simple test of self-awareness is the ability to recognize oneself in a mirror. Humans and chimpanzees can pass the test; dogs, cat, monkey never do. CONT… Animals like chimpanzees and perhaps dolphins, have at least a primitive sense of self , we know this because of some interesting experiments that have been done with animals. In one study (Gallup, 1970), researchers painted a red dot on the forehead of anesthetized chimpanzees and then placed the animals in a cage with a mirror. When the chimps woke up and looked in the mirror, they touched the dot on their faces, not the dot on the faces in the mirror. This action suggests that the chimps understood that they were looking at themselves and not at other animals, and thus we can assume that they are able to realize that they exist as individuals. Most other animals, including dogs, cats, and monkeys, never realize that it is themselves they see in a mirror. CONT…  Ideal Self Ideal self is the individual's perception of how one should behave based on set standard of aspirations or objectives . Ideal themselves began to grow in childhood are influenced by people who are important to her that provide expectations in adolescence, while the ideal self is to be formed through a process of identification of the parents, teachers, and other people close. CONT…  Self-esteem Self-esteem is a personal assessment of the results achieved by analyzing how far behavior can fulfill the ideal self. Self-esteem refers to the way we see and think about ourselves, confidence in one's own worth or abilities CHARACTERISTICS OF HIGH SELF ESTEEM  Able to accept and learn from their own mistakes.  Being Confident.  Not devastated by criticism.  Not overly defensive when questioned.  Not easily defeated by setbacks and obstacles.  Open and assertive in communicating their needs.  Not overly worried about failing or looking foolish. CONT…  Role Roles are attitudes, behavior values and goals expected of a person based on their position in the community. Roles can be something in which a person has no choice, whereas other can be elected or selected individuals. SELF-CONCEPT ESSENTIALLY INCLUDES FOUR BASIC ASPECTS THAT CONSISTS OF: 1. How do people observe themselves 2. How do people think about themselves 3. How do people rate themselves 4. How do people tried in various ways to enhance and sustain themselves. TYPES OF SELF CONCEPT… Positive self concept  Have confidence that he was able to overcome the problem  Feel equal with others  Receiving a compliment without feeling shame or guilt  Recognizing that every human being has desires, feelings and behaviors that are not necessarily fully approved by society  Knowing and realizing the deficiencies that exist within him and tried to fix it. ASPECTS OF SELF CONCEPT… Physical self-concept This concept means the views, thoughts, and assessment of people to its own. Individuals known to have a physical self- concept when he looked positively his appearance, health, skin, good looks, as well as the ideal body size. Individuals considered to have a negative self-concept when looking at those things negatively. CONT… Personal self-concept. This concept means the views, thoughts, and feelings of people to oneself. Someone classified as having a positive self-concept when looking at himself as a happy, optimistic, and able to control themselves, and have a variety of abilities. Conversely considered to have a negative self-concept when looking at themselves as unhappy, pessimistic, and unable to control themselves, and have a wide variety of shortage. CONT… Social self-concept This concept means the views, thoughts, judgments, feelings for people around. It relates to the ability of touch with the world , feeling capable and valuable within the scope of social interaction. Someone classified as having a positive social self-concept if it sees itself as the people who are interested in others, understand others, find it easy along with other people, caring, keeping the feelings of others, and is active in the social activities. Instead, someone is said to have a negative social self-concept if sees himself as a person who is indifferent to others, feels difficult to go along with other people, do not pay attention to others, and not active in social activities. SOME CHARACTERISTICS OF POSITIVE SELF- CONCEPTS INCLUDE:  He sees himself as an intelligent person;  He perceives himself as an important member of his community;  A person sees himself as an excellent spouse and friend;  A person thinks of himself as a nurturing and caring person;  A person views himself as a hard-working and competent employee. ON THE FLIP SIDE, THESE PEOPLE COULD HAVE NEGATIVE SELF-CONCEPTS LIKE:  A person sees himself as stupid and slow;  A man perceives himself as a burden on his community;  A person sees herself as a terrible spouse and friend;  A person thinks of himself as a cold and unapproachable person;  A person views himself as a lazy and incompetent employee. CONT…. “Self-concept is based on belief rather than on fact. Your self-concept does not necessarily correspond with external reality – others may “see” you differently. What you believe about yourself is true for you. It will be a powerful factor in determining your behavior. For example, if you believe you are inferior to others, you will probably act in a self- defeating fashion. If you believe you are strong , you will likely succeed, even against great odds. Your self-concept can help or hinder you.” it relates to the perception of individual strengths and weaknesses. ACTIVITY… Pair with someone you don’t know very well. Take 10 minutes to interview each other (5 minutes per interview). You can even add fun questions like “would you rather live on a boat or on an island?” or “what is your favorite subject at this school?”. Introduce YOUR partner to the other children. “We have the ability to change how we think about ourselves by working to become more like our ideal selves”.